Fenomena kehidupan - Learning to walk away is hard but staying to suffer is harder.

Pernahkan berlaku dlm diri siapa2 antara kita yg alami situasi seperti ini. Ada dua perkara yg biasa berlaku dlm hidup kita. pertama, kita kecewa dgn seseorang atau kita telah terkesan dr sesuatu kejadian disebabkan kesilapan org lain. kedua, kita telah mengecewakan impian kita sendiri..sesuatu yg kita ingin capai dlm kehidupan kita/atau hasrat peribadi kita, namun disebabkan keadaan yg tak mengizinkan atau boleh juga disebabkan faktor2 sekeliling yg diyakini tak dapat membantu utk kita terus menggapai impian kita. maka ada dua kekecewaan disitu. tapi sudah pasti yg paling sedih yg berganda2 adalah kita rs kita telah mengecewakan diri sendiri. Terasa luka itu sgt dlm.dan mungkin meninggalkan parut jika pun ia sembuh. Di sini perasaan sedih tidaklah dpt digambarkan dgn kata-kata. hanyalah mengadu pada pemilik alam semesta. kerana sesungguhnya Dialah yg Maha Mengetahui hati kita. Justeru, kita mengharapkan semoga ada sesuatu lebih baik untuk kita. tp hati terasa masih stranded disitu. tersekat di skala enam. Kekuatan itu perlu dibina. keyakinan itu perlu dipahatkan. Allahlah yg Maha Berkuasa dan Maha Mengetahui. 

Bila berfikir seperti itu, hati terasa bahagia, terasa tenang. Jika difikirkaan ujian sebegini teramatlah kecil jika dibandingkan dgn mereka yg ujian dia lebih besar dari kita. Allah sygkan kita. Terima kasih Allah di atas ingatan. Inilah warna warni kehidupan. :) Alhamdulillah. beribu nikmat yg masih perlu disyukuri. 

dalam hidup kita ada waktu kita happy, ada waktu kita sedih. 

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Pesanan pd diri sendiri. hidup ini singkat. bantu membantu lah sesama insan. tdk rugi pun layan org lain dgn baik. jgn sombong sgt.jgn skema sgt. manusia ada perasaan lah. lainlah kalau org tu bb 6 bln. mungkin kurang perasaan. ingat org happy ke setiap session tulis perkara yg mendownkan org. hahaha...abis tu,  kene telan je...

dipetik dari kata seseorang, bunyinya begini:

Sometimes walking away has nothing to do with weakness, and everything to do with strength. 

We walk away not because we want others to realize our worth and value, but because we finally realize our own... Please understand it is best to not pretend everything is ok when it clearly is not. Don't be afraid to confront issues which make us miserable. There has to be a reason...

We deserve to be happy. We all do. Sometimes we need to explore the option of walking away. No it is not giving up... It is instead courage. Walking away from what is holding you back and making you unhappy is courage. To not look back anymore is courage. Don't be afraid. Walking away consciously with the intention to be a better person in order to honour yourself from being treated than less what you deserve is the best thing you can do for yourself. Walk away everyone.. walk away from those who cannot love you... who do not appreciate you.. walk away from misery and build your future with Allah in your heart. Bloom. Go out there and bloom. Sometimes it's best to just walk away, count your loss, say a prayer and go on with your life. Time and forgiveness has a way of healing the pain and hurt that you will undoubtedly feel.

Learning to walk away is hard but staying to suffer is harder. Just pick up your courage and walk away. Don't waste time. The longer one drags on, the amount of pain accumulates. But then again... If it is really worth it... consider

not to just walk away from someone when things get tough, you find a way to stick it out and figure out what's gone wrong. But it has to be done together, sincerely...

I end with this...

Knowing when to walk away, is Wisdom. Being able to, is Courage. Walking away with Grace, and your held head high,is Dignity. -- Ritu Ghatourey

I pray we all find strength regardless

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